We’ve all heard of meditation but not all of us may be aware of the full benefits of daily practice. Often confused with other relaxation techniques or yoga, meditation goes way deeper. Did you know that we have 12 to 60,000 thoughts every day? What’s even more shocking is that 80% of these are negative; as our lizard brain takes control, we can lose focus, vision, or simply lack direction. But that’s just the beginning. Whatever challenges we face in our life — the loss of a job or a loved one, stress or anxiety, disease or recovery, and so forth — meditation can be a huge help. Aside from helping us heal, meditation can improve our lives and make us more open to gratitude, forgiveness, and compassion. On top of all this, meditation has proven to improve the areas in our brain that foster memory, focus, and learning. For many people, the science behind meditation seems new or incomprehensible. But the benefits of meditation are actually equally accessible to all. We just need to explore it and give meditation a go and find out what works for us — and what we can take with us.
“Touch your inner space, which is nothingness, as silent and empty as the sky; it is your inner sky. Once you settle down in your inner sky, you have come home, and a great maturity arises in your actions, in your behavior. Then whatever you do has grace in it. Then whatever you do is poetry in itself. You live poetry; your walking becomes dancing, your silence becomes music.”
Here are some common misconceptions about meditation:
Lack of time
Many of us live hectic lives. But that doesn’t mean we can’t find 5 minutes every morning and evening to try meditating. We find the time to drink, sleep, and eat. If you have time to breathe, that means you also have time to meditate.
Starting something new can be exciting but also scary. Our fear of the unknown can prevent us from achieving our full potential. Meditation helps us fight fear and explore new things outside of our comfort zone by empowering our unconscious. Don’t be afraid of what you will discover about yourself.
I used to think that meditation was for monks (which is also the case) or Buddhists. I thought it was spiritual practice. Yet the beauty (and truth) about meditation is that it’s totally accessible to every person on earth. Anyone can benefit from meditation, whoever they are.
Many people who lead physically active lives claim that meditation isn’t right for them. Meditation may seem like a Zen activity better fit for yogis or monks. But meditation can benefit us all, no matter our lifestyle or goals in life. The point is to embrace the right practice and make it part of your daily schedule — or life journey.
When I first introduced meditation to my circle of friends back in Asia where I practiced in various countries — from Buddhist temples in Japan and Thailand to yoga studios and retreats in Bali, Indonesia — I heard a lot of people say “I’m afraid that I’ll simply fall asleep if I close my eyes”. However, closing your eyes involves focusing on the moment — which requires total awareness as we breathe.
Meditation offers us paths to inner peace, happiness, transformation, and positivity. But it doesn’t work instantly. As we begin and then deepen our practice, we may feel some true benefits in the short-term. Here are some things that meditation can help with:
There’s no right or wrong way. As with most practices, the important thing is to try. You could speak to a meditation teacher, attend a meditation retreat, explore diverse meditation techniques, and slowly find the path that is best for you. Or simply start meditating by closing your eyes, holding your back straight with palms positioned gently on our knees and facing up to the sky, and doing a body scan. Focus on each part of your body, from your head to your feet and from your feet to your head. Or you can just breathe in and out 4 times, for 5 minutes each day. That’s enough to say, “Guess what? I finally started to meditate.